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Children’s Behavior Reflects Their Environment: A Tale of Two Homes
Have you ever noticed how children seem to transform  depending on which parent’s home they’re in? In high-conflict co-parenting...
Jan & Jillian
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10 Signs Your Coercive Controlling Ex No Longer Has Power Over You
Dealing with a coercive ex can be a draining and deeply emotional experience. They often manipulate through subtle means, leaving you...
Jan & Jillian
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Why The High Conflict Coparent Struggles With Being Solution-Focused
Coparenting requires a significant amount of cooperation, communication, and compromise. However, when one parent exhibits complex...
Jan & Jillian
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7 Types of Narcissism And How To Spot Them
Narcissism has increasingly become a very popular word these days for labeling someone’s personality and high-conflict behavior. So...
Jan & Jillian
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How To Help Your Kids Use Critical Thinking Skills (When Diffusing False Statements From Coparent)
As a parent, you want to do everything you can to help your child succeed in life. One important skill that will help your child is...
Jan & Jillian
3 min read


5 Tips To Taking Back Your Power After An Abusive Relationship
Are you a parent who is trying to rebuild your life after an abusive relationship? If so, you're not alone. Abuse can take many forms –...
Jan & Jillian
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10 Signs of Coercive Control In Coparenting
Most people think of coparenting as a situation where two parents work together to raise their children. However, coparenting can look...
Jan & Jillian
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Signs Your Coparent Is Gaslighting You To Avoid Accountability
Has your coparent been consistently making you feel like you're the one that is at fault for the conflict? Are they constantly making...
Jan & Jillian
3 min read


What To Do When The Kids Share About Their Other Home(when to assess further)
Navigating two homes isn’t always easy for children. What they may be used to in your home may not always be the same in the other house....
Jan & Jillian
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Five Healthy Habits For Improving Your Co-Parenting Relationship
The co-parenting transitional phase can take some time to adjust to, especially if you have been in an unhealthy marriage. Trying to...
Jan & Jillian
3 min read


How To Disarm The Narcissist Coparent
Are you co-parenting with a narcissist? It can be a challenging experience because of how narcissists manipulate and make you feel....
Jan & Jillian
4 min read


How To Set Boundaries With Family Over The Holidays
Are you going through a divorce or recently divorced, and starting to dread the holidays because you don’t want to experience another...
Jan & Jillian
3 min read


5 Questions That Will Save Your Sanity When Co-Parenting
Does it seem like no matter what you say your co-parent is trying to pick a fight with you? Sometimes it can take months or years of...
Jan & Jillian
3 min read


How Getting Divorced Brought One Mom Back To Life
Never in a million years did Megan imagine she would be a divorced mother raising two small children in a tiny house out in the middle of...
Jan & Jillian
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How To Respond To A Combative Co-Parent
If you are currently trying to co-parent with your uncooperative ex, you are not alone. While some fall into a stress-free co-parenting...
Jan & Jillian
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What Role Should A Step-Parent Play?
The transition from significant other to spouse is definitely an exciting one. However, if you marry someone with children from a...
Jan & Jillian
4 min read


4 Things Not To Be Left Out Of Your Parenting Plan
When you and your ex share children, the importance of having a carefully designed co-parenting plan cannot be stressed enough. While an...
Jan & Jillian
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3 Ways To Overcoming Divorce Guilt
Guilt takes many forms before, during, and after divorce. You may feel guilty about a specific instance, or maybe it is just a nagging...
Jan & Jillian
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Why A Divorce Coach Is Your Best Asset When Going Through Divorce
Divorce is hard, but it is even harder to go through alone. Hiring a divorce coach can provide solutions and ease you though the process.
Jan & Jillian
4 min read
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